For small business owners, employing a member of the family has a certain appeal for several reasons. If you are counting the pennies when starting up, it can mean significant savings in hired help. For home-based businesses, having a member of the family in the home might seem a good idea. And if you are a parent, there is even the appeal of being able to bribe your teenager to help with a few precious hours during school holidays.
The time will come, however, when you will need to employ someone on a regular basis, in which case, you will need to consider putting them on the payroll. The question is then, is it a good idea to work with a member of your family? And could you do so on an ongoing basis?
That of course depends on a number of factors.
Can you work together in close proximity, for example, in a shared office? There are few places to ‘hide’ when inevitable disagreements arise. Anyone who has followed the very public Gordon Ramsey family feuds will know how potentially explosive disagreements can become if you’re sharing both work and family life.
There is also the issue of talking ‘shop’. While it is clearly beneficial to have your spouse or partner running the business with you to help with trials and tribulations, it could also prove to be a downfall, if you both constantly talk shop and are unable to switch off.
And if you have ‘in-laws’ working for you, there is the obvious complication of how to tackle feelings of loyalty if the working relationship breaks down. You can fire your ‘in-laws’ easily enough, but you’ll need to live with your partner for a long time after!
If this is your business with a family member simply helping you out from time to time, will they take the business seriously? Will they respect your authority? Will they understand the importance of your deadlines? How will they react if you need to point out any mistakes they may have made?
The survival of your business and your personal relationship could very well depend on how well you are able to handle these problems when they arise.
Of course, there is no reason why these matters shouldn’t be handled as professionally as possible. We all know, however, that when family members are involved, the line of professionalism can become somewhat blurred.